Author Archives: Jason

About Jason

As "The Man That Men Will Talk To," Jason Fierstein, MA, LPC is a private practice counselor and psychotherapist for men and couples in the greater Phoenix, Arizona, area. He works with struggling men to find happiness in their lives, and with their wives.

Going Childfree

Tweet The decision to have a child, or multiple children, and to establish a family is no easy task. Assuming that you found a mate who wants the same things in life as you do, it can still be very … Continue reading

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How to Make Peace with Your Critical Self

Tweet People, including men, are notoriously hard on themselves, and many times have an adversarial relationship with themselves, which I refer to as a negative self-critic. They push themselves harder and harder to succeed, and then beat themselves up when … Continue reading

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Dealing with Sexual Performance Anxiety

Sexual performance anxiety can have physical or medical implications, but often times, our thoughts and emotions are blocking our ability to perform well sexually and enjoy sex. Continue reading

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How to Be a Good Husband

Tweet I spend a lot of time thinking about what it means to be a better husband. Sometimes I feel like I’ve got it; other times I don’t. I wonder how other men deal with this, so I put some … Continue reading

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Real Communication Strategies For Men

Real communication strategies for men, including how to express oneself, dealing with vulnerability and speaking in “I” statements. Continue reading

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How to Take a Break (A Real One)

How to learn how to take a break, and regenerate yourself through real rest. Continue reading

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Why I Work With Men in Counseling

Tweet As a counselor for men, people ask why I do the work that I do. For me, it’s personal, because I’m a guy and I have dealt with a lot of the things that guys have dealt with. Therapy … Continue reading

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When Your Spouse Starts Acting Erratically in Your Marriage

How to help yourself if your spouse starts to act erratically, starts to party and go out with friends, stays out late, or starts to have affairs with other people. Continue reading

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The Pros and Cons of Porn

Tweet I’m going to approach the topic of porn from a neutral position, even though it’s a loaded topic, and some may think that there are no ‘pros’ to the topic. I think the whole issue of porn had changed … Continue reading

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Considering Divorce: Things to Think About

Tweet If you’re considering divorce, I want to present several things to think about that may or may not be factors in your decision to do so. Divorce is not an easy decision, especially if you have a long marital … Continue reading

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