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Sex and Intimacy: What She Wants (And May Not Be Saying)

Tweet Sex, like other things, couldn’t be fundamentally different for guys and girls. Sure, the act is the same, the fun’s the same, and it’s an (ideally) satisfying experience for both. What could be so different? Women have sexual needs … Continue reading

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Guys, Relationships and Porn: Part Deux

Tweet If you suspect that the use of pornography is coming between you and your wife or girlfriend, it probably is. It’s not something that’s totally comfortable for guys to talk about with their women, and yet for a lot … Continue reading

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Baseball Family Secrets

Tweet by Doug Glanville (appeared in the New York Times online edition, Sunday, June 7, 2009) I haven’t spent a lot of time watching “MTV Cribs,” but I know the host likes to check the featured homeowner’s DVD collection for … Continue reading

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Mindfulness Is a No-Brainer

Tweet Our culture has taken a real interest in all things spiritual. Eveywhere I look, I can find someone meditating, doing yoga, chanting or promoting something with one of the spiritual arts. I think it’s great that we’ve embraced spirituality … Continue reading

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Are You Commitment-Phobic?

Tweet There’s plenty of reasons to be commitment phobic if you’re a guy: afraid of losing your freedom, wanting to hold onto youth and your wildness, fear of intimacy, not wanting to have children, and on and on. For evey … Continue reading

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Why Men Cheat

Tweet I was having a conversation with my business coach, Marco, and he was talking about this idea, which led me to seek out the article on (gasp!) Oprah.com. It’s interesting, and looks at the reasons behind why men cheat. … Continue reading

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How Online Pornography Affects Your Marriage, Part 2 – Interview with Leanne Grant, Ph.D

Tweet This post is the second in a series on dealing with how pornography affects marriages and relationships. Today’s post is an interview with Leanne Grant, Ph.D., who has worked with women who are affected by online pornography in their … Continue reading

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How Online Pornography Affects Your Marriage

Tweet I’ve had a number of calls recently from girls (and a couple guys) who are struggling in their relationships or marriages because online pornography comes between them. Usually, she will find the porn sites that he has gone to, … Continue reading

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Your relationship…one foot in, one foot out

Tweet So you aren’t sure if you want this relationship. OK. Maybe it’s been really great for a while, and now you’re just not sure. You know you’re confused, that’s for sure. And you think you want to stay with … Continue reading

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Fear of rejection by women?

Tweet One of the things that I have been thinking about is how we play games to avoid the fear of being rejected by women. I notice this with some friends I have, and with some clients. The one way … Continue reading

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