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27 Ways to Bulletproof Your Intimate Relationship: The Quick and Dirty Version

Tweet Listen. Don’t fix. Listen. Validate her. Affirm her. Questions? Ask her for help. Don’t flirt with other women. Flirt with her. Talk about your feelings. You won’t die of vulnerability. Clean more. Hold the door open for her. Don’t … Continue reading

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13 Tips to Help Relationships Survive the Holidays

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Scared Little Boys

Tweet Men dealing with fear is one issue that is so common among guys, yet hardly talked about. Questions to consider: How much of a man’s defensive posturing covers up his feelings of fear? Are we really that far removed … Continue reading

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The Work We Love, The Work We Hate

Tweet Trying to block out or push back chronic negative thinking about our jobs usually means one thing: we’re not listening to ourselves. Although it’s tough to talk about “do what you love” in the worst economy since forever, it’s … Continue reading

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Age Specific Relationship Challenges for Men

Tweet A friend asked me this really great question: “What are the specific challenges that men face in relationships at during each decade?” The question naturally led me to want to blog about it, and share it with you all. … Continue reading

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Phoenix Men’s Counseling and Therapy: Finding Purpose

Tweet Without a rudder, it becomes really difficult to steer our boat. We get tossed about on the seas, swing this way and that. The sense of direction is lost, and our journey is haphazard and without focus momentum. Finding … Continue reading

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Self-Therapy/Understanding Self-Care

Tweet A lot of counseling clients that I talk with have difficulties knowing how to take care of themselves. They are so busy taking care of work, family, money and other life stressors that they don’t have the time or … Continue reading

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Phoenix Therapist/Counselor for Men

Tweet Phoenix Men’s Counseling – some of the benefits! – Learn better communication with your wife/ girlfriend – Feel more appreciated – Get “in sync” again with her – Break the “suffer in stoic silence” mode – Generate energy, fun … Continue reading

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Proactive vs. Reactive Living

Tweet It’s 7:35 AM, and you’re slamming down a couple cups of coffee and a bagel. You’ll be late for work again, and your wife is back at it, nagging and harassing you. The trash is overflowing from last several … Continue reading

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Daters Need to Fight Destructive Messages

Tweet (My article appears in the Jewish News of Greater Phoenix Online (and print) in the September 11, 2009 edition) Dating success, like success in life, is often a function of our attitude. Carry optimism, hope and openness, and your … Continue reading

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