Tag Archives: Women

Phoenix Men’s Counseling and Therapy: Finding Purpose

Tweet Without a rudder, it becomes really difficult to steer our boat. We get tossed about on the seas, swing this way and that. The sense of direction is lost, and our journey is haphazard and without focus momentum. Finding … Continue reading

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Proactive vs. Reactive Living

Tweet It’s 7:35 AM, and you’re slamming down a couple cups of coffee and a bagel. You’ll be late for work again, and your wife is back at it, nagging and harassing you. The trash is overflowing from last several … Continue reading

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Daters Need to Fight Destructive Messages

Tweet (My article appears in the Jewish News of Greater Phoenix Online (and print) in the September 11, 2009 edition) Dating success, like success in life, is often a function of our attitude. Carry optimism, hope and openness, and your … Continue reading

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The Death of Dating (In 140 Chars.)

Tweet (This article originally appeared in the Jewish News of Greater Phoenix Online’s August 14, 2009 edition.) I’m not mourning the death of the traditional dating experience quite yet, but I do see the heavy use of social media speeding … Continue reading

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Guys, Relationships and Porn: Part Deux

Tweet If you suspect that the use of pornography is coming between you and your wife or girlfriend, it probably is. It’s not something that’s totally comfortable for guys to talk about with their women, and yet for a lot … Continue reading

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The Present Moment vs. Stories & Assumptions

Tweet Making up stories and assumptions about people and about situations often times get us into trouble. When  our minds go to devising stories — as colorful and intriguing as they are — they’re often times wrong. This presents a … Continue reading

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On Nice Guys and Their Hidden Anger

Tweet (This is an excerpt from my upcoming e-book tentatively titled “The Nice Guy’s Textbook: On Love, Life, and Getting a Spine.” Coming soon and will be available at my site – www.phoenixmenscounseling.com.) Anger and nice guys don’t mix. Because … Continue reading

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Seven Short Steps to Relationship Success for Guys

Tweet If there is no time to waste, use one or more of the seven short steps to turn around the tempo in your relationship or marriage. Many guys that I talk with call me at the 11th hour, when … Continue reading

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Phoenix Mens Counseling: On Melting Her Hurt and Winning Her Trust

Tweet For women, trust and hurt are intertwined. I speak with a lot of women who hold tightly onto their hurt towards their husbands and boyfriends. This creates a “freezing out” effect, where guys become pretty confused, reactive and angry, … Continue reading

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Phoenix Mens Counseling: “Sex and Your Shadow Side”

Tweet I was watching a video of Gov. Mark Sanford of South Carolina yesterday, stumble through his atonement from his bewildering escapades to South America. He explained his extramarital affair, and all the people he hurt, and uses a lot … Continue reading

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