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When You’re Scapegoated As The Problem In Your Marriage

With a number of couples I’ve seen over the years, there’s a trend in which one partner tends to scapegoat the other partner for all the issues or problems in the relationship or marriage, rather than taking any responsibility for contributing to those problems, which gets exacerbated when the “problem" child” spouse believes this narrative, and acts accordingly against the blaming spouse.

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Gaslighting in Relationships

If you’re finding that you have relationship problems or you’re looking into couples counselling, it might be helpful to take the time to learn about the potential cause of your emotional exhaustion: gaslighting. A term that is overused but not properly understood by many adults, gaslighting is when there is one person who uses their own power.

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